July 6, 1991.
Now that I think about it, we were sooo young. I was 20 and Louie was 21 years old. Still in college. (Only 3 years older than Garrett- oh, my goodness!) But after two years of dating, we were certain that God intended for us to commit our lives to each other. Words can't express how thankful I am that he guided us and protected us even from our own ignorance at times as we set out into life as husband and wife.
They say your wedding day if often a blur and you're lucky to remember it. But its funny what I do remember. Here are some highlights for your sheer enjoyment!
*I'll never forget the look on Louie's face and how he was acting all through the ceremony. I couldn't stop smiling- I was sooo happy that the day had finally arrived. Louie, who normally was great in front of a crowd of people, was stone-faced, pale and sweating. It was priceless. I'm still not exactly sure what he was so scared of... that I would say NO at the last minute? He finally was able to relax a little and smile at me during the singing.
*Louie's former pastor, Ron Stoner, and our pastor (at the time) and college ministry leader, Roger Adams, performed the ceremony. Now, Roger was notorious for editorializing during weddings. I wrote every word and asked him not to. But... of course he did anyway. That's when I thought Louie just may pass out and hit the floor.
*When he finally pronounced us man and wife, Louie got his second wind and did something that was very "Louie-ish". When he went to kiss me, he grabbed me and dipped me at the waist dramatically. He had threatened to do it, but when he did it at the rehearsal, I thought it was out of his system. Apparently not! Everyone laughed and clapped.
*You always have a few 'glitches' that make the story of your wedding day fun. After all the wedding party exited the sanctuary, someone forgot to turn off Louie's father's microphone- he had sung The Lord's Prayer. So as the organ music played, you hear Ed talking saying something about his shoes hurting his feet. On the wedding video, you can see Carol Adams, our pastor's wife hop up from her seat and tear out of the room after him.
*We had a great reception at Guyan Country Club. We had a buffet, a band, and a lot of dancing. Some of my favorite moments on are wedding video are watching couples from our church who have been married for many, many years slow dancing together. We even got Betty Crouch out on the dance floor!
I told you a little about that day, but our 19 years of marriage is about so much more than a single day. If you compared marriage to running a marathon, that's simply the day we walked to the starting line together. Every day since then has been the real expression of our love for each other. Some days and some years, we've done very well. Other days and other years, we've failed each other. We've even renewed our vows to make sure we were still running in the right direction. But I'm happy to tell you that after exactly 19 years, we still love each other. Although it's not always been pure bliss, it's absolutely true what they say- we love each other more today than we did when we committed our lives to each other. And I hope that God gives us many, many more years!